Self-sabotage is a set of behaviours and habits that we engage in unconsciously and that prevent us from achieving something we have set out to do.
For example:
- Not preparing properly for an interview or an important presentation,
- Not following up on your ideas for a project,
- Wanting to start a project/activity but putting it off because it’s never the right time,
- Wanting to lose weight but having another slice of cake,
- Forgetting the sign-up deadline for a course or training event that secretly interested you.
Self-sabotage often happens in situations where:
- There are high stakes for us on a personal level,
- We have to take responsibility or a decision,
- We need to make an important commitment or change of direction,
- Our plans are about to succeed, but we still need to take the final steps or decisions.